Unleash the power within for the life you have always dreamt of! By Avisrota

“You can’t hire other people to do your pushups for you.” Jim Rohn.

What does that mean? That means, we have to do our own work!I can’t ask my husband to go and workout for me and expect losing that extra five kilograms that I have been meaning to lose. It won’t happen. I have to do it myself.

There are mental, emotional, spiritual, intellectual, physical tasks or things we have to do on a daily basis. When we do them, we create success. So taking a 100% responsibility of our life is most important for the results we desire.

There is a very important and a small formula I want you all to memorize. If you get that right, you will understand and embrace 100% responsibility. That is:

E+R= O

E stands for Event,R stands for Responsibility,And O stands for Outcome

Most people, when they’re not happy, complaint about outcomes. They complaint saying things like, I am overweight, I don’t have the money I want, I am broke, my wife/husband won’t talk to me, my mother in law is mean to me, my son/daughter doesn’t talk to me, my co-sister is mean to me, my husband doesn’t listen to me.

These are the outcomes responded to earlier events.

Maybe somebody puts a slice of cake in front of me and my response is,

either I eat it or I could say, “I’m watching my diet” and I don’t eat it. The outcome would be based on that.

Someone gives me 2 lakh rupees and I go out, party, shop, or my response is, I invest it in a blue chip company, or put it in the bank, in mutual funds and two years later, I have two different outcomes. Usually we have similar events like economy the way it is, weather being the way it is.We all face similar kinds of events sometimes or the other like death, birth, etc and how we respond to that is what determines our outcome.

When we don’t get the outcome we want, we blame the event rather than changing our response. If we want a different outcome, we have to change our response. The power is in the response.People who don’t take 100% responsibility of their life complaint, blame and make excuses all the time.All the power is within us and not in the hands of the person we have given our life’s remote control to.

Blaming is a response to an event, not a response that produces anything, so we want to give up blaming the economy, the astrological sign, our boss, our mother in law, the time of the month, husband, friends, children, and so on.

We need to give up complaining as well. People complaint when they have a reference point for something. Example, people wouldn’t have complained about Covid-19, if they didn’t have the experience of a better life before. People don’t complain about the things they can’t change. People only complaint about things that they can change. 99% of failure comes from the people who are in the habit of making excuses. In order to get past it we have to give up all excuses and become solution oriented. We only have control over three responses; thoughts that we hold in our mind, images we have in our mind and behavior or the action we take, we say or we do.We have the power within ourselves to create the reality that we want by focusing on the intentions and our thoughts only on the things that we want.